This is Robert and our grandson Kaed. It Breaks his heart ...when Kaed wants him to pick him up...and he can't. And now Kaed has moved to NC with our son and we don't get to see him or our granddaughter Kiya but once every few months and when we do...he can't hold or play with them...It makes it very hard on him....They grow up so fast and he wants to do all the things grandpas do.....But until he has this surgery...he just sits on the floor and watches....He couldnt have children because of the radiation he had as a child....but you would never know he's not my sons dad.He gives his all....and now he needs help...Please help me make it better for him and our grandbabies. He's unemployed after 30 yrs and it's driving him crazy....we have to worry about bills (I'm disabled and draw 698.00 on SSI. That doesnt even cover our mortgage....so as hurt as he is...he trys to do side jobs...to pay our bills...I do my best to help...But it kills me to know he's struggling so hard...and hurting hisself...I would rather live in a cardboard box with him....then to live in a mansion without him. And I'm so afraid he's gonna hurt his heart or his lungs with all the sharp edged bones and plaster floating loose in his chest. His dr. has told him to take it easy and not to do the things he's doing...his answer is....Well when the dr. starts paying our bills....I'll sit down...until then I have no choice!!! I pray every night....that a miracle will happen....And 1 has....I found a doctor that can and will help.....Now I just got to find a hero to help to get us to Tulsa (twice) and help to pay our bills at home....(so he has somewhere to come back home to}Everyone keeps telling me God won't give me more than I can handle....But he's got me hanging from a string....We don't need a handout....just a hand up!!! Please if you can't donate money...Just send him a message or a card...He is becoming depressed and It tears my heart to pieces....Thank you and God Bless and protect us all.