I live in Florida with my husband and my 9 wonderful children - they have a slight problem being that they all walk on 4 legs and have fur (8 cats and one dog ), but otherwise they are perfectly wonderful babies :P And yes, being their mom, I've made sure that they are all spayed and neutered since I'm a big believer in that! My husband is disabled so I am the main support of our family and recently, his best friend that is also disabled, has moved in with us. I'm not healthy myself as I have MS but I truly believe that which does not destroy us, makes us stronger. I also know that no matter how bad it gets, there is always someone else that has it worse. Regardless of the situation, everyone can do something to help someone else, even if it is as simple as a kind word. How can you expect someone to help you if you aren't willing to help someone else?