I joined this site to become a better person! My all time favorite movie is "PAY IT FORWARD" if you haven't seen it I suggest you run out and rent it immediately! It literally will make you think about what you have, and who you are as a person.
In 2005 I became a single woman (after 15 years) with 3 children to support because my husband decided family life "just wasn't for him anymore" and he would rather have a bowling alley AND of course another woman. I NEVER in a million years thought I would be able to do it, but with the help of my wonderful Family, I was able to forget about "what's his name" and pull myself together to lose 60 pounds (Make that 260lbs I filed for divorce)! Anyway I learned ALOT about myself...I learned I AM a strong woman and that I can be alone and take care of my children. I found absolute TRUE love. The kind you dream about! The kind you have when your young and you can't eat and you can't sleep kind of love!
I am now "NEWLY" married to the most wonderful man in the world!!! Who is basically me --only a Man!! We have 5 children between us! I have three (2 boys and a girl) and he has two (girls) from previous marriages. Although we never say your kids or my kids they are "OUR" kids. Two of the children live with us.
I don't work outside of my home as I have fibromyalgia. I am the CEO of our home so to speak! I try to run it like a well oiled machine- along side my Husband of course!
My husband and I look at life VERY much in the same ways. We work our marriage 50/50 and I like that. When I was married before it was 90/10 me on the latter end. We will give it if we have it and it works for us very well in all aspects of life.
That is why I absolutely love this site! I hope to be able to be a hero many times! I am a TRUE believer in "YOU GET WHAT PUT INTO IT" "WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND" and EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON! I pretty much live by these rules!