Cards/Encouragement/Prayers for my husband struggling with addiction..

My name is Lauriell, I am a 24yr old mother and wife. I have 2 young children [2&4] and expecting my 3rd. I am married to a wonderful man, Dwayne, who is battling a drug addiction. It saddens me because he is a brilliant young man, only 30 years old and I have to watch him waste his life away. He makes music, he is a drummer, he's kindhearted, and a great father. I see him fight this battle constantly, struggling to get clean and maintain sobriety, but continues to fall. He is hard on himself about it and doesn't know how to keep fighting. He talks now of giving up and I can't allow that. It scares me to hear him say he is probably just going to end up dead. He is allowing himself to be defeated. He loves his children, and they love and need him. I don't want them to lose their father to drugs! I love him with all my heart, we've been married 6 years, and I cannot and will not give up on him, because I know God is able. As much as I try to help him and encourage him, I feel like he doesn't absorb it from me because I am his wife and I am "supposed" to say those things.

I come to you asking for prayers and encouragement for him. Because maybe if it comes from others, he will feel like people do care. If you could just send him a letter or a card, encouraging him to stay strong and keep fighting. If you have fought through an addiction, please offer advice. If you could send him materials related to substance abuse, that he might be able to benefit from, such as NA books, or recovery stories. Anything... just please help me keep my husband alive.

Thank you and God bless you!

Wish Info

  • Posted: Jun 8, 2012 2:27 pm
    Granted: Aug 28, 2012
  • Member: LBellenger
  • Member Since: Jun 5, 2012
  • Wishes Granted: 1 time
  • City: Orlando
  • State: Florida
  • Country: United States
  • Type: Need
  • Wish is for: Family
  • Category: Card Wishes (Codes, Coupons, Stickers)
  • Cause: Substance Abuse
  • Views: 473
  • Comments: 16
  • Follows: 1

8 Accepted OffersLast offer 11 months ago

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  • KatrinaBatGirl 11 months ago - Accepted!

    I would be happy to send a card of encouragement! How sad is his struggle - but how lucky he is to have a supportive wife! You must be a very strong woman. Prayers are with your family -- God bless!

  • preemiemommy 11 months ago - Accepted!

    I would love to make a card, and if it won't upset him write him a letter of encouragement

  • Stickers4Sadie 12 months ago - Accepted!

    I'd love to send a card!

  • 4blessingsofmine 12 months ago - Accepted!

    i would love to send a card with some encourageing words please pm me info

  • doctore 12 months ago - Accepted!

    I can send a card...

  • santachel 12 months ago - Accepted!

    Would love to send him a card, Please tell him congrats on his choice of soberity and pm addy :)

  • 46sko 12 months ago - Accepted!

    I'd be glad to send him a card. Please send me his info.

  • oneother 12 months ago - Accepted!

    I would be willing to send a card

Comments & Responses


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LBellenger 9 months ago

To the people who sent cards and words of encouragement to my husband, I truly thank you. Youre kindness meant a lot to my husband. :)

LBellenger 11 months ago

If you do not intend to send a card, please do not offer. Thank you.

LBellenger 11 months ago

@46sko.. my husband wanted me to tell you thank you for the card.

LBellenger 12 months ago

@Oneother.. My husband got your card today and it made him smile, he said it was very nice. He said thank you and that card might be the thing to keep him clean one more day. Hes been sober on his own for a week.. We are going to 3 NA meetings this week.

LBellenger 12 months ago

My husband went to a NA meeting today and wants to go again thursday. :) just wanted to share. Please continue to pray for him. Thanks.

LBellenger 12 months ago

Thank you shoppernanny

shoppernanny 12 months ago

Greater Orlando Area of Narcotics AnonymousServing Orange, Osceola and Seminole Counties of Florida24 HOUR HELPLINE 407-425-5157 or 866-579-8333

This would be the place to start. You can even get help for yourself in dealing with this problem. Praying for you !

LBellenger 12 months ago

Inpatient is the one thing he wont agree to and the one thing I feel like he needs. =\

BrTupac 12 months ago

I am the daughter of a former drug addict. My dad struggled for many, many years and lost everything. He lost his wife (my mom), his daughters (my sister and I) and his mechanic shop. I didn't really know him until I was 13. He went to impatient treatment for quite awhile too. I'm not sure what your husbands addiction is but maybe he would benefit from inpatient treatment. Also, if he is hanging out with people that are using, it isn't going to help him. Feel free to PM me if you want.

LBellenger 12 months ago

@fibrofoggirl.. thank you.. I pray for the same thing.

mommie817 12 months ago

your family is in my prayers

FibrofogGirl 12 months ago

I am praying for your family. May it be God's will that your wonderful husband become drugfree!

LBellenger 12 months ago

thanks oneother, i messaged you the address.

mommie817 12 months ago

you are very welcome

LBellenger 12 months ago

thank you