for help while my husband recovers from spinal surgery. :(

Good evening WUAH! I hope your 'First day of Summer' was incredible!! Mine was not so great.

My husband hurt his back on June 3rd pretty badly. Unfortunately we were away from home that week, and couldn't get him to the DR until we got home on the 11th. Our DR felt it was very severe and sent him for an MRI.

Long story short, the MRI revealed that Kenny has a badly ruptured disc in his back, as well as many bulging discs & degenerative disease (he is only 26). He has had no feeling or reflexes in his leg since the 3rd, and his been unable to move his foot.

Today we learned that he needs "Immediate Spinal Surgery" to repair the damage, otherwise he will be paralyzed in that leg and foot forever. His surgery will be tomorrow, Friday, or Monday. We aren't sure yet.

He has already missed 20 days of work, and will be out of work for several months. He is our ONLY income as I am disabled (and waiting for disability). We've started the process for short term disability for him, but it won't be nearly enough to cover us and takes awhile to start.

I'm wishing for ANY help you can provide. $1, $5, $10, whatever. Anything will help! We have a house, car, utilities, pets, and ourselves to pay for. We also will have co-pays and medications. Our bank account is dwindling and the fridge is running out. As a vegetarian with Celiac, I have been eating a LOT of pasta because it's cheap, and it's making me sick. I need to be strong for my husband, and he needs to build strength after surgery! I also will need to eat at the hospital. We applied for food stamps but were denied because he got a check June 1. We will reapply in July, but that's still many days. We are going to the pantry tomorrow.

If there is anything you can do to help us, I would so greatly appreciate it. I don't believe I've ever felt so broken, and I've never heard him so defeated. We just need help.

Thank you all for listening! I do have a Paypal card, elainemeowz@gmail.com .

~*Elaine*~

Wish Info

  • Posted: Jun 20, 2012 7:45 pm
    Granted: Jul 17, 2012
  • Member: avrildancer
  • Member Since: Sep 5, 2009
  • Hero: 719 times
  • Wishes Granted: 29 times
  • City: Roanoke
  • State: Virginia
  • Country: United States
  • Type: Need
  • Wish is for: Someone Else
  • Category: Medical & Healthcare
  • Cause: Spinal Cord Disability
  • Views: 846
  • Comments: 17
  • Follows: 5

8 Accepted OffersLast offer 10 months ago

*Guest offers are automatically accepted, and do not appear in the list below.
  • tanyah 10 months ago - Accepted!

    E, I have a few things to send you and Kenny. We love you guys and hope this tough time passes as quickly as possible.

  • deeswife4 10 months ago - Accepted!

    It's not much ($5) but you need to eat something healthier than pasta! Hope all is okay with ya'll and your needs get met....HUGS

  • jburke723 10 months ago - Accepted!

    Ooh no, a Celiac sufferer trying to live on pasta is NO way to survive! I wish I could do more but I'd like to paypal you $10.

  • MOVINGON 10 months ago - Accepted!

    Sending a little help to pay pal.

  • Guest 11 months ago - Accepted!

    This donation was made by a guest.

  • Guest 11 months ago - Accepted!

    This donation was made by a guest.

  • andiwoji 11 months ago - Accepted!

    I would like to send you a few dollars to help through the mail. Please let me know your address privately. Andiwoji You have been a great hero to many :)

  • Mommax6 11 months ago - Accepted!

    Give me your address. I looked at your wishlist and I can put together a package from my own stash of some things on there. It'll be cheaper to send what I have than to order it online.

    ~Tabbie~

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avrildancer 10 months ago

A very HUGE thank you to all of my heroes who helped us through the beginning of our rough patch. Things are still rough, while my husband recovers, but we are trying our best to make it. You all are AMAZING!! Thank you!

avrildancer 10 months ago

I'm not sure who guest two is, but your donation came through this morning after I marked my wish granted. Thank you SO SO SO SO SO much!!!

andiwoji 10 months ago

You are welcome :)

avrildancer 10 months ago

Thanks so much andiwoji for the $5!! It arrived yesterday. You are SO awesome! :) :)

avrildancer 10 months ago

A very HUGE thank you to T.P. (I don't want to post your name). We received slippers from you yesterday, and a HUGE package of things from my wish list today. You are absolutely amazing and I swear I couldn't thank you enough. THANK YOU!!!!!

avrildancer 10 months ago

Thank you SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much to whoever sent the package from Walmart. It included some dog food, some cat food, some bird seed, and a bottle of detergent. Thank YOU! It means SOOO much! :) ALSO, thank you to T.P. for sending my husband the slippers. He is VERY happy with them!! HUGE HUGS!

Mommax6 10 months ago

So glad it arrived and I was able to help :)

avrildancer 10 months ago

Thank you SO much Tabbie for the box of goodies you sent, they arrived today. I cannot tell you how much that means!! :o)

avrildancer 10 months ago

A VERY special thank you to whomever purchased the toilet paper from our wish list. It arrived in the mail today via FEDEX. Thank you SOOO much!! :)

avrildancer 10 months ago

Thanks so much Butterflymommy!! :)

butterflymommy 11 months ago

Elaine, I'm keeping your husband in my prayers. I really hope that you find many heroes.

avrildancer 11 months ago

UPDATE:
Today we recieved a call at 845am that we needed to be here at 1030am for EMERGENCY spinal surgery. He was expected to be in surgery for 2 hours, but was in for nearly 7 hours. We are currently in a hospital room and he is resting comfortably with the "liquid happy meds". Thanks to those of you who have helped so far. We definitely have a long road a head!!
~*Elaine*~

avrildancer 11 months ago

Thanks so much M. :)

puggedbymeeko 11 months ago

Elaine! I'm so sorry to hear this =( You and Kenny are in my thoughts and prayers.

mommie817 11 months ago

you are very welcome