My wish is to help my daughter with her self esteem with a makeover and/or new clothes.

Hi. I am making this wish for my daughter. She was assaulted violently by 3 men at age 11. She was assaulted by another man at age 12. She never told us what happened. During 9th grade sex ed class the topic was brought up. She started having flashbacks and began cutting herself. When she finally told me what had happened she started therapy and was diagnosed with PTSD. A very intense therapy session triggered a very vivid flahback that caused her to swallow 100 tylenol and 100 motrin. Thank god i was home from work or she would have died. I rushed her to the local hospital where they tried to treat her during which she begged me to kill her. She was transfered to Childrens Hospital where she remained in intensive care for 3 1/2 day. She was then transfered to a mental health facility. When she returned to school she started being harrassed mentally and sexually. She was dismissed early from the school year because she was making herself ill with stress. Over the summer things got much worse. People would call her in the middle of the night and say things like "Too bad u didnt kill yourself! Better luck next time" "You deserved what u got u F-in whore". "How was the looney bin?" She tried to go back to summer sports and was made to feel uncomfortable. I contacted the school and they put her on homebound. I spent the summer fighting to have her educated somewwhere else and that finally happened last week. While she is doing well with her new therapist her self esteem is at an all time low. I have 4 other children and cant afford to do the things that i think will help her self esteem. My wish is for a spa day/makeover and/or some nice new clothes. Im hoping that would help her a little because she needs all the help she can get. Thank you.

Wish Info

  • Posted: Sep 30, 2012 9:37 pm
  • Member: puppyettea
  • Member Since: Sep 28, 2012
  • Wishes Granted: 0 times
  • City: National Park
  • State: New Jersey
  • Country: United States
  • Type: Want
  • Wish is for: Teen
  • Category: Other
  • Cause: Psychological Disorders
  • Views: 1009
  • Comments: 21
  • Follows: 6

3 Accepted OffersLast offer 6 months ago

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  • MuslimMom 6 months ago - Accepted!

    I'd like to send her a letter and a gift.

  • butterflymommy 7 months ago - Accepted!

    May I send her a little something? I have a couple little things that girls her age would like. She is in my prayers.

  • murphy663info 7 months ago - Accepted!

    I am happy to say, Beths Spa http://www.bethshairboutique.com/staff.html
    Will be granting this wish! She is sending you everything in the mail for your daughter to be treated like a QUEEN. Tell her to enjoy for us Jennifer!

Comments & Responses


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puppyettea 7 months ago

Thanks LillyLynn for the suggestion! She wears Large top and a 12 or m pants and sz 8 shoe.

LillyLynn 7 months ago

It might be helpful to post sizes if your daughter would accept nice but used clothes.

puppyettea 7 months ago

She is having reconstructive surgery tomorrow. Would u please say a prayer for her? Im scared this will trigger another bad flashback. Thank you!

puppyettea 7 months ago

Thanks again everyone. She is having surgery this week to repair the damges from the attacks. I was hoping to find another hero to help with the clothes portion of the wish. She had to switch schools and the dress code is different, she also grew and all we can afford is goodwill. I think it would make her feel amazing to get that portion granted as well. Thank you!

Denise72 7 months ago

Way to go Ken! :)

puppyettea 7 months ago

Thank you so much everyone for the well wishes> Thank you Beth and murphy663 for helping her

mommie817 7 months ago

wtg ken and dolphns25!!!!!!

murphy663info 7 months ago

Sorry I am late with the posting... I know Beth has taken care of this and she is a terrific person! You are in good hands!! Have fun.!

mommie817 7 months ago

i hope you get many many heroes

murphy663info 7 months ago

My name is Kenneth Murphy and I am a Wish Ambassador here at Wish Upon A Hero, and I would like the chance to make this wish come true. Please PM me contact info and if you have a means to travel. I can not promise you anything, But I will try my hardest to make this happen!

momkitty 7 months ago

i hope u get ur wish

knlx3 7 months ago

I can't really help that much to provide a spa day or clothes, but what kind of makeover are you thinking? Makeup and what not or more haircut, etc?

bratwkidz 7 months ago

So sorry for what your daughter has endured. My daughter was raped by her biological father when she was four. He lost all parental rights and is now serving prison time in a Farmington, Mo prison. This will be a long battle for your family. Hoping your heroes find you and she gets a little peace and normalcy in her horribly traumatizing childhood experience. Best of luck she can find some semblance of a normal life and get on with what remains of her childhood. May the Lord hold and guide your family during these difficult trials and tribulations. May your family be richly blessed

mommie817 7 months ago

i hope you get your make over wish

kimbaker 7 months ago

i hope you get a hero hun