devastated need some help

Granted by Heroes: esmeralda7ch, kuska
Well I am going to start by saying this has ended in a horrible day. My best friend was due October 5. She started having contractions last night. So she went in and they could not find the heartbeat. So they did and ultra sound. and still couldnt see the heartbeat.So they told her she had to have the baby and she said no I am not going to have a dead baby I cant do that so they did a c-section and what had happened was the placenta had seperated from the baby when she thought she was having the contractions it was the baby seperating and filling up with blood.So she lost her baby that she cared all this time up until five days before she was suppose to be here. My best friend is very devastated they had to give her a name sign a birth certificate and decide if they wanted to do a funeral or creamation on their baby who they were suppose to have forever.This would have been their first baby..They are going to need help with the creamation and the ceremony... Even just a card or something to cheer them up. A dinner date, spa day, giftcards. cards, anything to make them smile and understand that the god has a reason for everything. She said out of all her friends I was the only one to call and check on them and be there for them. that made me feel awesome inside.. knowing that someone does need me and that I have helped somebody..And I just want them to smile and be happy even though this just happened earlier today... that there are people who care out there and that they are not alone.. Sorry so long just need to get this off my chest and see a smile on my best friends face. thank you for reading my wish

Wish Info

  • Posted: Oct 9, 2012 11:12 pm
    Granted: Nov 2, 2012
  • Member: wright22
  • Member Since: Jan 10, 2011
  • Wishes Granted: 6 times
  • Raised: $0.00 Goal: $150.00
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  • City: harrison
  • State: Michigan
  • Country: United States
  • Type: Need
  • Wish is for: Someone Else
  • Category: Other
  • Cause: Other
  • Views: 348
  • Comments: 12
  • Follows: 2

2 Accepted OffersLast offer 8 months ago

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  • esmeralda7ch 8 months ago - Accepted!

    The card is in the mail. God bless

  • kuska 8 months ago - Accepted!

    That is very sad to hear I am so sorry for their loss. I would love to send a card to them. Please let me know where to send it. I will keep them in my prayer's God bless

Comments & Responses


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wright22 7 months ago

thank you all for sending items to my best friend

esmeralda7ch 8 months ago

This is very heart breaking, I would like to send a card. Please send me that info.

wright22 8 months ago

THANK YOU GUYS FOR THE PRAYERS

Gardania00 8 months ago

I'm so sorry for their loss. I would like to send a card.

mommie817 8 months ago

your friend is in my thoughts and prayers

kimbaker 8 months ago

your in our prayers hun hope you get a hero

loveloyaltyrespecthonor 8 months ago

I couldnt imagine what that must be like for them and I will pray for them. You are a great friend.

awesomominca 8 months ago

Keeping her in our prayers. There is no other hurt or grief worse than the passing of a child. May the good Lord wrap his arms around them and cofort them in their time of sorrow.

"The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit."
Psalm 34:18

wright22 8 months ago

thank you so much

bratwkidz 8 months ago

Keeping her in our thoughts and prayers :) The death of a child is hard for any family. We have lost children, and the pain in your heart is deep. May the Lord bless her and hold her in his loving embrace and comfort her as she goes through her sorrow and grief. May many heroes find her and her needs be met. May she get that smile, even if it's just for a day :)

wright22 8 months ago

thank you both very much

bandit83854 8 months ago

I would love to send them a card. I can't afford anything more since I'm on disability and my husband is unemployed at this time. I have 2 friends that have gone thru the same thing so I understand the pain. Please let me know were to send a card.