"HUGE" Birthday Wish for Abused Granddaughter

Granted by Heroes: ShannonT, FlutterbeadsUSA, Guest, FLMom, MiaMe313
My beautiful granddaughter Katelyn will be 14 on Dec. 7th.
She has gone through some major struggles in her young life.
A little over a year ago my daughter left her husband of 9 years after he abused Katelyn for trying to protect her mommy from him.
Katelyn lived through 9 years of watching her mother be physically and verbally abused. She was terrified to tell as was my daughter.
When they first moved here from New Jersey, Katelyn had some major struggles. Even though the life she had lived was horrible, leaving it behind was hard for a 12 year old.
She had good friends there that she had to leave behind without ever having the chance to say goodbye.
She began cutting and blaming herself for everything that had happened.
Not only had she lost all her friends she also lost a whole family. Even though he treated her and her mother horrible to Katelyn he was her dad and his family was her family.
After they left the whole family totaly disowned Katelyn. Not her 2 younger half sisters (who are his). The 2 sisters are constantly showered with gifts and clothes and trips. Just in this past year they have been to Disney for 2 weeks, Cape Cod and Canada. Katelyn even asked to go and was told no.
Last Christmas they got laptops and ipods.
Katelyn got nothing from them. She had been a part of there family since she was 1.
Even though we got Katelyn the emotional help she needed and she is doing awesome now, I know it hurts her deeply. She loved these people.They were her grandparents, aunt and cousins.
Financialy my daughter and I just can't do special things for Katelyn. It's hard enough just trying to get what she needs. More then anything Katelyn wants a new red laptop. We bought her a cheap used one last Christmas on ebay but it died over the summer.
I know this wish is huge and I honestly don't expect it to be granted but she is definately worth wishing for. Maybe her hero is out there and will read this heartfelt wish from her mom mom.

Wish Info

  • Posted: Oct 26, 2012 6:39 pm
    Granted: Nov 14, 2012
  • Member: sharon19966
  • Member Since: Oct 22, 2012
  • Hero: 10 times
  • Wishes Granted: 4 times
  • Raised: $520.00 Goal: $500.00
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  • City: Millsboro
  • State: Delaware
  • Country: United States
  • Type: Need
  • Wish is for: Teen
  • Category: Birthday Wishes
  • Cause: Women Related
  • Views: 7183
  • Comments: 16
  • Follows: 3

5 Accepted OffersLast offer 6 months ago

*Guest offers are automatically accepted, and do not appear in the list below.
  • ShannonT 6 months ago - Accepted!

    Best wishes, xoxo Shannon

  • FlutterbeadsUSA 6 months ago - Accepted!

    Hi Katie and Sharon, I wish I could do more, but I am unemployed and work from home, trying to make my Dream of a successful jewelry business come true. I hope this small gesture at least shows you that there are people out there who do care; and can relate, as I too am a survivor of (childhood) abuse (15+ years)! I will keep you in my prayers, and continue to share your message. ~ Beth ~

  • Guest 6 months ago - Accepted!

    This donation was made by a guest.

  • FLMom 6 months ago - Accepted!

    If you would like me to send her a birthday card, forward info.

  • MiaMe313 6 months ago - Accepted!

    I have a birthday package for Katelyn =) please PM address!

Comments & Responses


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sharon19966 6 months ago

Thank you so much, especially to you Shannon. This will mean so much to Kate. I will be getting her the red laptop she has dreamed of for her birthday. The look on her face will be priceless. I know a lot of people still want to do for her so I will be posting her Christmas wish after Thanksgiving. It would be awesome to be able to replace some of the things she had to leave behind. Much love to all. Never stop believing in miracles because they do happen. Especially when you have amazing Hero's from Wishuponahero helping to make those wishes come true. Never forget to pay it forward because we all have the power to be ~HERO'S~

sharon19966 6 months ago

Katie had an amazing Hero grant her wish to be able to get her laptop. I'm going to keep this open for a couple of days if anyone would like to send her a birthday card or Christmas wish. Thank you for making a young girl who has had a really rough life feel worthy of miracles.

sharon19966 6 months ago

Still desperately seeking a Birthday and Christmas "HERO" for Katie. She also has an Amazon wishlist
http://amzn.com/w/1L8FFMRGH1DW7 Please help bring some joy to a very deserving girls life.

sharon19966 6 months ago

MORE OF KATIE'S STORY : KATELYN HAS VERY LITTLE OF ANYTHING. WHEN THEY LEFT NJ THEY LEFT WITH NOTHING BUT A SUITCASE. SHE DID EVENTUALLY GET A FEW OF HER PERSONAL ITEMS, BOOKS, CD'S, TROPHIES, PICTURES. BUT THAT WAS ABOUT IT. HER SF WOULDN'T ALLOW HER TO GET ANYTHING ELSE. THINGS THAT WERE HERS. HER TV, COMPUTER, PSP2, GUITAR, GAMES, STEREO, BEDROOM SET, ALL THE THINGS THAT ARE SPECIAL TO A KID, SHE HAD TO LEAVE. WHEN THE DIVORCE WAS FINAL AND THE COURT ORDERED HER THINGS BE GIVEN TO HER THEY WERE EITHER BROKEN OR GONE (SO HE SAID)

sharon19966 6 months ago

@Flutterbeads Thank you so much. Your DREAM will come true. I saw your jewelry its beautiful.

sharon19966 6 months ago

To whoever took the 1st step towards granting Katie's wish. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. You renewed my hope.

sharon19966 6 months ago

Still praying for "any" birthday and christmas wishes for Katelyn. Please be a Hero to her.

sharon19966 6 months ago

Still desperately seeking a Birthday and Christmas "HERO" for Katie. She also has an Amazon wishlist
http://amzn.com/w/1L8FFMRGH1DW7 Please help bring some joy to a very deserving girls life.

sharon19966 6 months ago

11/2/12 : UPDATE
Hurricane Sandy managed to make it impossible for Katelyn to get to a concert BOTDF, that she had saved all summer for. In addition to that her mom's work got some major flood damage and we have no idea when she'll be able to get back to work. Fortunately wishuponahero granted some Christmas wishes for her sisters. Unfortunately, so far, not for Katelyn.
Hopefully some heros will find Katelyn's wish and help to make it happen.

sharon19966 6 months ago

@hernameisgrayce That would be really nice for you to write her. I sent you the address. Between the storm and having to miss a concert she saved for all summer
(because of the hurricane) she's a bit down.

hernameisgrayce 6 months ago

I am financially unable to help though I might try to given time. However, I would like her information. I dealt with self-injury/depression and I enjoy writing letters to people =]

mommie817 6 months ago

wtg hero!!!!!

sharon19966 6 months ago

You have really touched my heart. Its amazing that a stranger will do for her when the people she had always thought of as family won't. You'll never know how much receiving a present from a complete stranger will mean to her. I'm sure some day she will pay it forward.

mommie817 6 months ago

please do not contact loftj

singledad02 6 months ago

Pray you get ur wish